-5 Resolutions of New Year 2016...

-5 Resolution of 2016 Year

30th Jan...We are in the Last Days of JAN-2016...You must have made lot of Resolutions..

Here I am sharing my experience..Happy Reading..

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While coming to Office, I saw a hoarding saying about IGNITE-2016 - A DJ Party in 3 Star hotel. The Advertisement was so appealing that I was sure that many will consume more pack of Vodka or whiskey in the name of 2016 and Become Kid ohhh Sorry become Animals of 2016. Ladies & Gentleman “Happy New Year” with Tequila Shots & Chicken Tandoori. Ha..Ha..

This is how mostly youngsters celebrate New Year...if I am not wrong every time we want to celebrate New Year. Kindly note, I am making a great difference here; Celebration & Drinking are two different phases. People generally assume if they drink, shout, then it is Celebration. If they Dance (without even drinking), it will not be considered as celebration.

The 1st Day of Every Year is always excites us because we promise ourselves so many things which we want to achieve in the coming year. I don’t know how many people checks “Where they are after the end of Year”. So here I want to share why not this year we make -5 New Year's Resolution. (-) Sign indicates go back or go reverse from your original status. -5 mean you are checking all the options what you have committed last year and now making that list. Identifying the Top 5 last year resolutions which was decided by you in a very conscious state. Jotting down the reasons for each resolutions why it has not been completed. I believe now You are with Your last year 5 Resolutions which You have not completed along with the reasons which stopped you for achieving those resolutions.

Keep Your Diary close. And now do 5 WHY exercise to each & every resolution why you want to complete it. Let me give an example, Suppose You decided last year that you want to wake up early in morning and you could conceptualize this resolution in last year.

So we will do 5 WHY exercise with this resolution.1st why: Why you want to Wake Up early (Answer may be: Want to Go for Morning Walk). 2nd Why : Why You want to Go Morning Walk (Answer maybe : It will keep me fit & healthy).3rd Why: Why You want to keep Yourself Fit & Healthy ( Answer maybe : It will help me to focus more on my work & my business Productivity). 4th Why: Why you want to focus more on work & upgrade Your Productivity. (Answer maybe: It will help me to earn more). 5th Why: Why you want to Earn More Money. (Answer maybe: It will help you to fulfill your dreams).

So, The Best Answer for You for the Last Year Resolution, “I want to wake-up early” is because you want to fulfill Your Dreams. Now how are you feeling? This answer is more intense to achieve whatever you have thought of achieving more. I hope, I am making sense. My understanding says Keep Your Motive So STRONG that it should help you to take Action.
That is why we call Motive + Action = Motivation. Prepare such list of motives for all your last resolution and convert your -5 Resolutions into 5. At last by adding extra intense flavors of motives you can change it into +5 Resolutions. In this way you can think & utilize with what you have rather than what you don’t have. This is our OPEN BOX Consulting Philosophy.

Once Again ...Happy New Year.

M.

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Famous LOGO & Its Meaning.-By Gaurav Tidke

Great Gaurav..!!!! Nice Initiative.

The LOGO means BRAND..and BRAND means YOUR UNIQUE IDENTITY.

What is Your IDENTITY...???

Think & Grow Rich.!!!!

Happy Thoughts.

Manish Upadhyay.

 

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Heyyy ROCKSTAR - GIVE YOURSELF A REWARD :: Motivational Thoughts Nagpur

Make a promise to yourself that you can have a reward when you reach a certain point in your objectives. Either you have achieved your Mini-Goal or you are stick to your plans. In either case, Give or Make the reward something you’ll really enjoy, like a new DVD or CD, or a new journal or a New Book.  

It doesn't have to be expensive either, it can be as simple as a few hours to relax and do something you love.  However, be sure to follow through and really give yourself the reward when you complete what you set out to do!  Don’t fool yourself into believing that it was just a trick to get you moving. 

You are “THANKING YOURSELF FOR WHAT YOU ARE”. 

Executive Life Coach, Inspirational Speaker, Students Training Programs, Employed Training Programs, Other/Mixed Training, Motivational Speaker - Manish upadhyay Nagpur

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Happy life

Last year three movies titled, Happy New Year, Happy Ending and Happy Journey (Marathi movie) were released. All the three movie had “Happy” in their titles.

While sipping coffee, a question popped up in my mind, why movies Industries are focusing on producing such movies. Do we really need to go to theaters to make ourselves happy?

We get so much involved in our work that we find ourselves stressed at the end of the day. So, people go the movies to release their stress. It's about requirement of happiness.

The directors through their movies try to help us realize that we can stay happy if we take out moments from our lives and extract happiness out of these moments. 

On one hand, Happy New Year focuses on how a failure can become successful if given a chance. On the other hand, Happy Ending focuses on how we keep thinking of past & dreaming of future. Life is about   celebrating today. I CALL IT PRESENT.

Happy Journey depicts the beautiful relationship of a brother and sister in which the guy learns the meaning of life through one journey along with her sister.

Now a days movie have been changed completely. There are two genres that are becoming popular these days. One is MEANINGFUL movies and the other is MASALA movies. Every movie forces us to think about our Life and surroundings. People easily connect themselves to movies.

How can we describe the meaning of life if somebody asks about it?

A few days back, a student who didn't get a job from campus after BE came to me and asked “Why this  happens to me? I think luck is not favoring me.” Even after trying for consecutive five companies he did not get job.

“Can you define luck for me?” I asked.

The student got irritated and said, “You get things in life very easily.”

According to him people who get something without putting in less effort are lucky.

But I think good luck is when SKILLS MEET OPPORTUNITIES. We should improve our skills and look for opportunities.

If nature throws mangoes at you don't complaint or ask for oranges. Enjoy mangoes with closed eyes and bigger intensity as if you are enjoying oranges.

The biggest problem of being is that he always wants to live in future or past. He never enjoys his present. As a result, he looks for shortcuts to enjoy his life. He starts smoking and drinking to get if stress.

These are temporary solutions. Enjoy life to its maximum by keeping yourself awake. Every small moment should be celebrated. Enjoy success as well as failure. Enjoy rain as well as heavy heat of summer days. Enjoy with new friends and keep in touch with old friends too. Spend time with parents and share your problems.

If you do all this in your life, you will have a HAPPY LIFE.

Executive Life Coach, Inspirational Speaker, Students Training Programs, Employed Training Programs, Other/Mixed Training, Motivational Speaker - Manish upadhyay Nagpur

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No Body can Stop You

Bande hain hum uske, hum pe Kiska zor…

Umeedo ke Suraj, nikle chaaron aurr..

Iraade hai fauladi, himmati har kadam…

Apne haatho kismet likhne aaj chale hain hum….

( I am God’s man, who could Dare to defy me…the Sun of Hopes, is out in all directions…my intentions are solid, and there is courage in every step…I have set forth today, to write my own destiny)

My Most Favorite Poem of Dhoom-3 written by Chopra Family. We all want to grow…We all want to become Successful…Nobody wants Failure in their life. But my question is When we get 200% Success whenever or whatever we do. The answer is Simple…. ‘WHEN WE DON’T HAVE ANY FEAR’..I remember the lines of Swami Vivekananda:

“All this is our work, our fear — fear, the beginning of misery, of disease, etc. By being nervous and fearful we injure others, by being so fearful to hurt we hurt more. By trying so much to avoid evil we fall into its jaws”

That Means You MAXIMUM Output will come when you don’t have any Fear with anyone. I am not worried if people are facing fear about their competitors. I am concerned when People are fearful with their THOUGHTS.

Friends, “If You wanted to be FEARLESS then BE HONEST WITH YOUR WORK, APPROACH & ATTITUDE… Then Only You will not face any Fear from anyone not even from your mind because Your Mind knows that you have given your 200%”. I Know at that time ‘No Body can Stop You’ & Nobody can hurt You because You are the child of that Almighty who is always with you”

“Naa Daro… Naa Bhagoo buss Dekho aur Jagoo…”

ALL izz WELL….ALL izz WELL

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Your Friend,

Manish Upadhyay. 

Executive Life Coach, Inspirational Speaker, Students Training Programs, Employed Training Programs, Other/Mixed Training, Motivational Speaker - Manish upadhyay Nagpur

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Naach Bhi le

Sometimes, there are situations when you feel stuck….You feel things are not moving. At this point..
a question comes in Mind.. “How can I change it instantly”.

Here is the Solution: Turn on your FAVORITE MUSIC tunes and boogie your lethargy away!  Sing along with the lyrics or simply move your body and get some POWERFUL FEELING IMMIDIATELY flowing in Your BODY & MIND.  You can even combine this with your daily routine where you’re cleaning and organizing. Then you've got a “MORE PRODUCTIVE BOOGEY-WOOGEY!” Remember Friends, Dance Activity or Exercise is the immediate steps, you can take to change your Body Language. 

If You can easily change your Body Language...

Then you can drastically change your Thinking Pattern too. Try it…& Feel It.  

Executive Life Coach, Inspirational Speaker, Students Training Programs, Employed Training Programs, Other/Mixed Training, Motivational Speaker - Manish upadhyay Nagpur

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